Tips for Planning a Wedding in Charleston

Last year the Post and Courier reported that 5000 wedding licenses were issued in Charleston County... What that sounds insane, but it's true. With so many weddings and so many wedding details to look after, it gets difficult to time hiring decisions. But don’t worry, I've got you covered! Most couples that get married in Charleston, SC take at least a year to plan their weddings. So, I've gathered some resources and put together a tentative timeline to help you decide on when and how to hire your vendors. So let’s get started!  

River Course Wedding on Kiawah Island.jpg

12 MONTHS BEFORE
Wedding planner: Wedding planning can be fun, but it’s also a trying process, requiring a lot of patience and research. If you don’t want to handle everything by yourself, let the professional planners share in your responsibilities.
Wedding venue: Your wedding venue is one of the most critical decisions. Choosing and acquiring your dream venue requires diligence because days fill up fast. So, find your venue first thing and set a date!

River Course Wedding Photos Kiawah Island.jpg

10 MONTHS BEFORE
Photographer: We can only handle one wedding a weekend and some weekends are especially popular in Charleston. Get us booked ASAP before another wedding couple snatches us up. 
Florist: Research your favorite florists and get them onboard as early as possible as well.
Caterer: Your venue may handle your catering needs, but if not, get recommendations from the venue staff. Schedule a tasting as well; this is one of the fun parts of planning!! 
Musicians: Finalize your favorite band's availability and music selection before the wedding to ensure no last-minute mix-ups.

Kiawah Island, Cassique Golf Club Wedding Photo.jpg

8 MONTHS BEFORE
Engagement portraits: This is a significant step in your life you are combining families. It's important to document this time and get to know your photographer.
Officiant arrangement: No officiant, no marriage. So start interviewing them to find the best fit.
Wedding dress: Finding the perfect dress takes up a lot of your time, energy and patience. So you can even start earlier with your search, especially if you want a custom-made dress!
Guest accommodations: Research your hotel options for any discounts or wedding-packages, and book a block of rooms.
Save the dates: Inform your loved-ones well ahead of the wedding date to ensure that no-one misses your special day.

Kiawah Island Club wedding.jpg

7 MONTHS BEFORE
Cake: Even with a small cake for cake-cutting, cake tasting, and designing is one of the most fun activities. Don’t rush this excellent wedding detail.
Bridesmaid dresses: Plan a day out with your girls to choose their outfits for the big day. It’ll be a relaxing, fun activity to take your mind off of any wedding stressors, too.

Kiawah Island Wedding Photographer.jpg

6 MONTHS BEFORE
Invitations: Send out the wedding-invitations by now to set aside time for RSVPs and confirmations.
Guest accommodations: Research your hotel options for any discounts or wedding-packages, and book a block of rooms.
Hair & makeup appointments: Get your favorite makeup artist booked ASAP before he/she is snatched away.
Rentals: Your venue may handle these but if not, get the reception décor and dining arrangements sorted by now. Think tables, chairs, serving ware, and linens.
Transportation: Think about you and your guest's transport needs at the wedding and make arrangements accordingly. Trolleys and rickshaws are favorite modes of traveling around downtown Charleston. 

Kiawah Island, River Course Wedding Photos.jpg

5 MONTHS BEFORE
Men’s attire: Suits or tuxes? Get it sorted soon.
Accessories: Details like the veil, shoes, and jewelry can be finalized when you find the wedding dress as well. Choose whenever convenient.

Kiawah Island, River Course Wedding Photos.jpg


3 MONTHS BEFORE
Bridal Portraits: Are an opportunity to work with your hair and make-up team, florist and photographer before the big day and take creative portraits. 
Wedding favors: Put some thought into your wedding favors to make your guests feel special. Local snacks, bottled water, a list of your favorite Charleston restaurants are a few fun details to include!

River Course Wedding Photography.jpg

Amanda & Preston Dole
Venue: The River Course on Kiawah
Wedding Coordinator: A Charleston Bride
Invitations: Studio R

 

JR LEAGUE OF CHARLESTON BRIDAL BOUTIQUE

Dewberry Wedding Photographer.jpg

I have been an active member of the Junior League of Charleston for 14 years!! My current role is the Nominating Committee. The Jr. League raises money and provides volunteers to fight Hunger and Homelessness in the Charleston Community and trains women to be community leaders. 

I was honored to help with the promotional photos for the 2018 Junior League of Charleston Bridal Boutique. 100% of the proceeds from the event go to our Community.

If you are on the hunt for your dream wedding dress or cocktail dress you need to attend this event!

January 27, 2018 | 10:00 am – 2:00 pm

The Dewberry Hotel, 334 Meeting Street, Charleston, 29401

HOW TO DRESS FOR YOUR FAMILY PORTRAIT

If you are conflicted on how to dress for your family portrait below are a few guidelines.

Wear solid colored clothing so that we see all of your faces and no one person stands out. If you wear stripes or flowers, you will stand out from the rest of your group.
        
Choose muted tones that are a bit subdued so that you are the subject not your clothes and you don’t stand out from the group. Bright colors project (especially reds, oranges, and yellows), which also makes you look larger.
        
Choose similar tones for your top and bottom (both dark or both light) so that one doesn’t look bigger than the other.  White top, dark pants will make your top look bigger.  White pants, the dark top will make your bottom look bigger.
        
Choose 1-3 colors for your group portrait, ones with similar tones that go nicely together and have everyone work within that color palette. For example dark green, navy, and burgundy – all dark jewel tones or a great option for the beach is pastels colors: pink, light blue and light green. So that we see the people first and your portrait looks stunning. Wedding group photos look so good because they’re all wearing the same colors and the people stand out!
              
Choose long pants for men/ladies or a skirt below the knee for ladies so that your legs don’t take attention from your faces, and you will be able to sit and bend without showing too much leg
        
Keep jewelry simple and minimalistic because too much draws attention from your face.

 

Some of my favorite local Charleston, SC clothing stores are:

Style Dwell - a women's clothing store on James Island
Tres Carmen - a women's clothing store on Kiwaha Island and James Island
Half Moon Outfitters - a men and women's clothing store in West Ashley, Downtown Charleston, and in Mt. Pleasent
M. Dumas & Sons - a mens clothing store in downtown Charleston
Angles and Rascals - a children's consignment shop in Mt. Pleasent. They usually have a healthy selection of smock dresses and name brand clothes. I always pop in when I'm on that side of town.